Name: Vivian Chidinma Desmond Social Media Handle/Username: Ig: @vivee_vibe Introduce Yourself/Tell About Yourself: I’m Vivian, an 18 years old from The East Side of the Country (Nigeria). A student Yeah, and I run a Skincare business of my own. Generally a Happy and easy going person. What Inspires You Every day? : FAMILY! Looking at how far they’re had my back I’ll say they’re […]
Name: Vivian Chidinma Desmond
Social Media Handle/Username: Ig: @vivee_vibe
Introduce Yourself/Tell About Yourself: I’m Vivian, an 18 years old from The East Side of the Country (Nigeria). A student Yeah, and I run a Skincare business of my own. Generally a Happy and easy going person.
What Inspires You Every day? : FAMILY! Looking at how far they’re had my back I’ll say they’re my biggest inspiration cause each time I look at them I’m like “Nah mannn can’t let these people down I gotta build myself up to a stage where I can also return the favor, love and care they showed me. And by that I don’t mean family who are related to me by blood alone! Family are the people who stay by your side during the good and bad times. So basically it includes the Friends and Good people I’ve had acquaintance with.
What is some words of wisdom you live by?: 1. Never let people who wouldn’t bear the consequence of a situation make a decision for you.
2. Either you like it or not, not everyone will agree with you, support you, be optimistic about your dreams and that’s totally fine.
3. Unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward.
What is your ultimate goal in life? : Honestly, this is like a secret I’ve always hidden within myself. I’ll say I’m a very Ambitious Woman tho I’m usually scared to say it cause at some point I doubt if things would ever go they way I want them to and that’s basically everyone right? Firstly in whatever I do I’d love to be a Woman who fixes another Woman’s crown’ Idk it’s like my passion or sumn which is why I try my best to sorround myself with people who would do the same for me. In a male dominated world where when a man works hard and get applaud for the successful outcome, we woman has to work harder to get the recognition and award. So I’m working on being a very hardworking Business woman and an activist who speaks for woman who are less privileged and empower them.
How have you been during the pandemic and how has it affected you? : The pandemic greatly had impact on literally everyone. And honestly I’ve been praying for everyone that this pandemic has greatly affected. So far I’ve been grateful, this pandemic made me realize A LOT! Realized the things I don’t take serious really matters and I’ve learnt how to appreciate the little things I’ve always taken for granted The Good health, shelter and My family yess! Realized no matter what they’re everything and all we’ve all got at the end of the day.
What is a message you would like to give others? : DO YOU. It was really hard for me growing up as a kid who made peoples opinion a priority in her life. Any decision I make I always put people first…What will they think?, will they be proud of me?, who would care and who wouldn’t.
I have seen the best of ME (not the best yet tho) and the worst and I choose both because at the end of the day it’s still ME and it’s ME who gotta deal and live with every single decision I make so Today I am in control because I want to be. I have my fingers on switch.
What else would you like to tell others about you or your life?: BE HAPPY!
Life is hell, at some point we all just have to get used to it. No one will come and save you. No one will come riding on a white horse and take all your worries away. You have to save yourself, little by little, day by day. Build yourself a home. Take care of your body. Find something to work on. Something that makes you excited, something you want to learn. Get yourself some books and learn them by heart. Take yourself out for dinner. Dress up for no one but you and simply feel nice. it’s a lovely feeling, to feel pretty. You don’t need anyone to confirm it.
There’s nothing like deep breaths after laughing that hard. Nothing in the world like a sore stomach for the right reasons. Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions. Time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time. BE HAPPY AND GOD BLESS YOU